Friday, August 1, 2008

aja = today

Kirstin teaching her deaf students photography. Abines, my cameraman, was on the roof filming. It should be great footage. This elderly woman walked by and they asked if they could photograph her... I talked to a lot of the kids (via translation, sign and Nepali). They said that their families don't know sign language, so the only time they get to talk to anyone is at school. They are really smart and talented kids with little opportunities. Nepal has 4 schools for the deaf period. They don't have the ADA requirements like we have here.
Abines and one of his assistants. He is so good at his job. I told him that I want him to come film for me where ever I go... hopefully Cambodia is next.

Today I spent the entire day filming. It was so amazing. I'm stoked about my projects. In addition to VSN stuff, I filmed a deaf school in a village about 2 hours away. The school is incredible. Stay tune for the film. I rode on a motorcycle with the cameraman ( I carried all of the equipment). The ride was breathtaking... all rice fields and villages... super green. It was one of my trip's highlights... the motorcycle ride there and back. I got to see Baktapur because Abines, my camera guy, decided to be a tour guide on the way there. Baktapur is gorgeous. I'll have to visit again next year. In Nepal it is taboo to touch the opposite sex, so I had to ride through rough terrain as you see here... I'm a pro now. It's funny that I feel safer on a motorcycle in the countryside of Nepal with no traffic rules than I do in a snow storm in US.
Today the children had a holiday from school because there was a partial solar eclipse. We had to stage everything. It was so cute. We had to dress the orphans and walk them to school. They were a little confused and irritated because they thought they had a holiday. As we walked with them to the school building in their uniforms, a million kids poked their heads out of the windows and asked if there was school. We had to keep telling them that we were just pretending.

This was the last day of service for Chelsie, Maddy, Cal and Sarah. They had an Easter egg hunt with the orphans at OCRC. It was so cute, and the children were so sad to see them go.

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Gotthatar... more pics later





A little Nepali folk dancing













Me and the girls... they always tell me that they want my skin, but I tell them that they Seriously





Katie won the Dal Bhat eating contest... Radhika served us 2 pounds of Rice, then potatoes, lentils, etc. She ate everything but the pickle...
Dancing







Me and the girls







Doing the Hokey Pokey with the kids. We were running out of party ideas and Sarah started this... the kids loved it!








Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Catching up on two weeks past

Me and Rupa and Tiya (Rupa's baby girl) going to pick up fabric for mattress covers for the OCRC orphans. We had to burn their mattresses and bedding b/c of lice and scabies! Fun! So... no car seat requirements in Nepal.


A "junior doctor" removing stitches from one of our orphans. He's using a razor blade, and the boy is sitting on the playground slide.






First of all I apologize for not blogging for a week or more. Access to the internet has been tough, and I’m busy anyway. Right now there is no petrol in the country. Apparently Nepal has a poor credit history with India, so gas and oil are not being offered or sold. The petrol lines are miles and miles long. Few buses are running (if any), and therefore life changes. Teachers and students can’t get to their schools. We have difficulty getting to the orphanages, etc. Fortunately all the women in my class can walk, but my instructor takes the bus. There is also a political issue or two that is playing into the transportation drama. We are here at a very historic time: the country elected its first president last week. Prior to this, Nepal has been a monarchy – a dysfunctional monarchy. Well this past week, elections were held and despite the fact that the Maoists have the largest political representation, a moderate (non-Maoist) was elected. It was a pleasant surprise to everyone. They had put his name on the ballot as sort of a filler, with no expectation for him to win… and he did. The vice president and prime minister were also elected. It took a few days for the election because no one was winning the majority, but now we have a leadership. I am excited for the future changes. It will be crazy still, but different still and not communist. The following pics are of the landless community

We went to the landless community to find more women for my class. Not much has changed, but there are more buildings. Our clinic is still going strong. Because of the rain, the conditions are even grosser than before. I trudged through cow dung and manure filled puddles to my knees to get access to some to the huts. Alberto and Katie went with me, and stood back in some of the areas I traversed. There has been a lot of contention in the community because of the volunteer influence. Everyone needs help and everyone wants help, so they question our methods of choosing projects and people to assist. Because of this we couldn’t go to the community leaders. Instead I was asking random people… “Do you know any widows?” I met with a few of the women that I taught last year. Dilmaya is in the picture. She has one of the nicer huts in the community (notice the wallpaper). She wanted to come to my class, but unfortunately she was ineligible because she has a husband. Husband = duel income. We were surprisingly unsuccessful. I was quite frustrated with my helpers/interpreters. I felt like they were not making an effort. So I went back and found my interviews from last year. I found the picture and interview notes from Chandra Kumari Giri. She was the women who had 5 children. Her story is basically as follows:

She fled to Kathmandu seven years ago during the onset of the Maoist insurrection. Carrying bamboo sticks and guns, Maoist rebels raided Udipur, her small village in southeastern Nepal. Her young children watched as Maoists murdered the neighbors and pillaged their home. Two months earlier, her husband married a second wife abandoning his young family. She was then a single mom with five children ages 2 to 10. She is now 42 years old and does heavy labor.

The class is progressing quickly. The women have now taken over the whole orphan pajama project. Initially our instructor told us it would take a couple months for them to learn, but they are rocking out. Katie and I also help with the class. We use a lot of sign language.

Because these women are illiterate, we are now spending an hour each morning teaching basic literacy and math to them Shrijanna is a little frustrated, but I told her that I am here for uneducated women exclusively.

So here are a few more bios… I got cut off last time I started. In addition to Chandra (the landless widow) there are two more.

Muna Khadka. She is 21 and was married and 17. Her husband left her after a few months of marriage. She has no children and has never worked. She’s been living with her sister. Her sister was in my knitting group last year. We found Muna because of that connection. I told Sugandha to ask Radhika Didi who the women who the widows were. It’s all about self initiative here.

Sapana – Her husband went abroad when she was pregnant with their first child. Her daughter is now 6 years old. She never heard from him since he left. She was also married at 16. She is now 24. She heard about our class and begged to be a part of it. In the past, she has worked for a tailor doing menial labor like sweeping, etc.

The women are so great and so excited. Their lives are changing drastically…it’s so great!

Last night I went up to Gottathar to see all my children and women from last year. They were so excited to see me. Some were shy, but most were just cute and stoked. Ramilla’s mom came running from the field. Her hands were covered in what looked like mud. I said – “what’s on you hands?” She said, “cow dung!” and started laughing hysterically. Tonight we are having a dancing and singing party. I’m bringing the group…

Below, Katie and I are doing Yoga with the neighbor girls. The other is of all the volunteers I live with.

Monday, July 21, 2008

Meet the class

My class is going well. We found women in difficult situations, and are basically giving them a scholarship to take our tailoring class. The class will be for 2 - 3 months. We pay the women a small salary to attend. This is so they don't have to work other jobs to support their families. Prior to coming to our class these women worked as laborers or as paid servants. Most of them still have 2nd and 3rd jobs, but they are ours from 10 - 4 every day.

At the end of the course, we are opening a tailoring shop on the VSN school property. This is so great because the women have garunteed empolyment. They will be comissioned to make the school uniforms and we will send all the volunteers who want surwal kurtas made.


Mandira - married when she was twelve. Is now 19. Has a 7 year old and a 2 year old. Her husband beat her and left her. She is completely illiterate. In addition to my class, she cleans houses .

Vishnu - husband beat her and she ran away. She has one child who comes to the class.

Saraswoti - Was raped and has a two year old from the rape. The man who raped her also left his son with her and disappeared. So now she is raising two of his children. Her 11 year old son (who she calls her son) has just been sponsored to go to the VSN school.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

It's raining monkeys


I will write about the monkey temple later... enjoy the pics.

Let me clarify something about my appearance. 1. It was raining - hence the amazing hair. 2. I was wearing my rain coat over my back pack - hence the illusion of a gut (I have abs of steel). 3. I'm with a group that encourages, perhaps requires, that crazy faces be made during photo shoots.











Future husband love...

This is part of a tent from the party the other day. I think the fabric is beautiful and it really represents the vibe here. For those of you that are new to the Hindu culture, the swastika is a holy symbol... no association with anything anti-semitic.

I've been doing a lot of shopping for our class and for the orphanage. Going to the fabric district of Kathmandu is so amazing. It is just filled with super bright colors and prints. Nothing that you would see in the US... we're so blahze.


So.... this month is husband month. It is celebrated by all women - married or single. The major tradition involves wearing green and yellow bangles (notice my sparkly bracelets ). Girls and women also get their hands "henna -ed". They do crazy cool designs on the palms of your hands with henna - then you wait several hours for it to dry and set. I was instructed to sleep with my palms up, which I did. Sujanna was my artist. I was her first client. We stayed up until the wee hours of the morning doing our hands - me and the dutch girls.

So, the darkness of the henna will predict how much your husband (or future husband) loves you. The darker the henna is on your hands, the better fortune you'll have in marriage. Interesting - eh? Every girl and women in Nepal has these bangles and henna hands. It's kind of cool because they don't even look twice when my palms are exposed. The henna on my hands looks different than Sujanna's because it is the drying paste